I’m in my 20 th year of homeschooling and on the homestretch of this incredible, daunting, and fantastic journey. There have been days I feel like I am soaring and go to bed full of joy and gratitude and other days have been marked by frustration, tears, and worry-filled sleepless nights. As I reflect, it does my heart good to list things I’m glad I did, and I hope it encourages others as well. Of course, I wish I had known at the time that these decisions were ones I could make and pursue with confidence, but oftentimes I found myself second-guessing and fearful. Hindsight is always 20/20, as the saying goes. Are there things I wish I had done differently? Absolutely. But that is a story for another day. For now, enjoy my hindsight and I pray it is helpful to you on your homeschooling journey. In no particular order (except #1), I am glad I: 1. PRIORITIZED BIBLE TIME : From the time my oldest child was a toddler, I always made Bible time in the morning with the kids the m...
I’ll never forget the day several years ago when a friend walked in and commented on a pile of clean laundry lying on our family room floor. “Your laundry is on the family room floor!” she exclaimed with an odd sense of excitement. “Yeah… this is where we fold our laundry. This load finished a while ago, but I haven’t had time to fold it yet,” I replied. She continued by telling me how relieved it made her feel to know that someone else wasn’t living in a magazine-worthy home and that my relaxed attitude about said pile helped her eradicate thoughts that she is failing or can’t have people over because her home isn’t a picture of perfection. There also was the time that a family friend heard we were hosting a large dinner event at our home shortly after moving into our current neighborhood (our seven kids ranged from one to eleven years old at the time). She seemed shocked we would do such a thing, since we hadn’t had time to decorate or get fully settled, but honestly, it never ...